It hurts to much to help some times ..people abuse it .instead of getting stronger or learning from it they let it make them weaker… I found myself having to tare apart meself just to get things right, at the same time was holding things together as if I was the support beams of a bridge, I gave warning and yet no action we’re taken, I feel as if I take my beams out that the hole bridge is gunna fall n never b able to rebuild. I just don’t know how to feel about it .its like they lost there drive.